In the Days of My Youth I Was Told What It Means to Be a Man – a son discovers the truth behind his father’s machismo and secret life
posted Tuesday, March 24, 2026
In the Days of My Youth I Was Told What It Means to Be a Man a searching, brilliantly stylized memoir about a charismatic, philandering father who tried to mold his son in his image, the many secrets he hid, the son’s obsessive quest to uncover them, and ultimately, the true meaning of manhood Big Lou […]





